You Are Irreplaceable

At this time of year, I love to watch traditional Christmas movies, including A Christmas Carol—the Patrick Stewart and Muppets versions—The Nutcracker ballet, and Love, Actually. I also enjoy Little Women and The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe—films with broader themes that embody the true spirit of Christmas.

It’s a Wonderful Movie
But my favorite Christmas movie has to be the 1946 classic It’s a Wonderful Life, starring Jimmy Stewart and directed by Frank Capra.

Donna Reed, Jimmy Stewart, and Karolyn Grimes from It’s a Wonderful Life

Although the hero, George Bailey, isn’t a cardboard saint, he does the right thing time and time again.

He’s a man with plans and dreams that don’t involve staying in his boring hometown of Bedford Falls. Yet he sets those dreams aside when his father dies unexpectedly and someone needs to take over the family savings and loan business to keep it out of the hands of the evil and avaricious banker Henry F. Potter.

Every time George thinks he will be able to resume his plans to attend college and travel to exotic vacation spots, another crisis arises. Every time, he agonizes over his choices and eventually makes the hard decision to remain in Bedford Falls to protect his family, friends, and neighbors.

Life Throws Us Curveballs
Doesn’t that sound like our lives too? We make plans, but life takes us down surprising paths. How we respond to those unwanted detours says a great deal about who we are deep inside.

George Bailey eventually embraces his role in life. He and his wife Mary raise four children, and their kindness and generosity earn them the love and respect of everyone in Bedford Falls.

Yet even George Bailey has his breaking point. In a moment of crisis, he wishes he had never been born.

George then receives a priceless gift: His Guardian Angel Clarence appears and grants his wish.

For George, the stakes are incredibly high. As he watches this alternate world unfold, he realizes how much his actions have influenced the people he loves: He isn’t around to save his brother’s life, so his brother cannot save the soldiers on the sinking transport ship. No one catches Mr. Gower’s error, so the pharmacist spends years in jail for inadvertently poisoning a child. George isn’t around to stand up to Mr. Potter, so the entire town falls under the banker’s influence, and people suffer endless hardships.

Our Own Moments of Truth
Perhaps the stakes in our lives are not as high as they are for George. But I have to believe—I do believe—that we each play a pivotal role as we pass through this world. As Clarence shows George, every person is irreplaceable, and we each have a unique role to play, a unique job to do. If we don’t do it, the job may not be done.

“The Nativity” by Lorenzo Lotto

But we do not face these challenges alone. As much as I love the fanciful worlds of Santa and the Grinch and the Sugar Plum Fairy, I believe in my heart that the reason for the season centers around the birth of Jesus. I believe in my heart that he is the Son of God. So just as he sends help to George in A Wonderful Life, God sends us help when we need it most.

As you leave 2018 and embark into the unknown world of 2019, may your New Year be filled with abundant blessings. As Tiny Tim so memorably puts it: “God bless us, every one.”

Visions of Sugar Plums

Genius is another word for magic, and the whole point of magic is that it is inexplicable.
Margot Fonteyn, English ballerina

’Tis the season for The Nutcracker. From extravagant creations produced by professional companies like the Pennsylvania Ballet and American Ballet Theatre to humble productions offered by community ballet schools, The Nutcracker is an annual treat of magic, music, and dance.

© Copyright William Starkey and licensed for reuse under this Creative Commons Licence

© Copyright William Starkey and licensed for reuse under this Creative Commons Licence

The first time I saw the ballet I was as frightened of Herr Drosselmeyer and the Mouse King as young Clara was. I was more interested in Clara’s story and her trip to the Kingdom of the Sweets than in all the “boring” dances. Each year my appreciation for the ballet grew. As a piano student, I soon focused on Tchaikovsky’s evocative music. Eventually, I fell under the spell of the main event: the dancing.

One young dancer in Wilmington, Delaware, will be onstage this season dancing three roles in the First State Ballet Theatre’s production of The Nutcracker. However, she will not be seeing visions of sugar plums. Unlike the others onstage with her, Jamie Meyer is legally blind.

When she was thirteen years old, Jamie was diagnosed with Startgardt disease, a type of macular degeneration that causes progressive vision loss. Fortunately, she has studied ballet since the age of three and so mastered the technical basics of ballet before she began losing her vision. Her fellow dancers at First State Ballet did not realize she had visual impairments until she revealed her secret in October 2014.

How often do we make excuses for ourselves when we come up against any obstacles? Whether we are trying to master a new skill or finish our latest novel, how often do we excuse our lack of progress?

“I was sick.”

“I work full-time.”

“I’m studying for finals.”

Students of the Brighton Ballet Theatre

Students of the Brighton Ballet Theatre

Imagine performing intricate dance moves onstage that require perfect unison with other dancers—and you cannot clearly see them? How many times was Jamie Meyer tempted to quit because her vision continued to deteriorate even as she progressed from ballet student to professional ballerina? Talk about someone with a strong will and unwavering faith in herself and her talent.

The body can do amazing things in a situation when it is really called for.
Suzanne Farrell, American ballerina

Although many of us focus on the dancing snowflakes, flowers, and Sugar Plum Fairy,  I had it right as a child: the heart of The Nutcracker is the faith and devotion of one little girl. That faith and devotion are perfect reflections of the strength it takes to be a ballet dancer, which is a short and difficult career. Some dancers, like Jamie Meyer, face even more difficult challenges than the typical ballet dancer. But they dance on, because they love to dance.

We all need the same faith and devotion to achieve our own dreams.

What obstacles are getting in the way of your dreams? What are you going to do about it?