You Are Irreplaceable

At this time of year, I love to watch traditional Christmas movies, including A Christmas Carol—the Patrick Stewart and Muppets versions—The Nutcracker ballet, and Love, Actually. I also enjoy Little Women and The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe—films with broader themes that embody the true spirit of Christmas.

It’s a Wonderful Movie
But my favorite Christmas movie has to be the 1946 classic It’s a Wonderful Life, starring Jimmy Stewart and directed by Frank Capra.

Donna Reed, Jimmy Stewart, and Karolyn Grimes from It’s a Wonderful Life

Although the hero, George Bailey, isn’t a cardboard saint, he does the right thing time and time again.

He’s a man with plans and dreams that don’t involve staying in his boring hometown of Bedford Falls. Yet he sets those dreams aside when his father dies unexpectedly and someone needs to take over the family savings and loan business to keep it out of the hands of the evil and avaricious banker Henry F. Potter.

Every time George thinks he will be able to resume his plans to attend college and travel to exotic vacation spots, another crisis arises. Every time, he agonizes over his choices and eventually makes the hard decision to remain in Bedford Falls to protect his family, friends, and neighbors.

Life Throws Us Curveballs
Doesn’t that sound like our lives too? We make plans, but life takes us down surprising paths. How we respond to those unwanted detours says a great deal about who we are deep inside.

George Bailey eventually embraces his role in life. He and his wife Mary raise four children, and their kindness and generosity earn them the love and respect of everyone in Bedford Falls.

Yet even George Bailey has his breaking point. In a moment of crisis, he wishes he had never been born.

George then receives a priceless gift: His Guardian Angel Clarence appears and grants his wish.

For George, the stakes are incredibly high. As he watches this alternate world unfold, he realizes how much his actions have influenced the people he loves: He isn’t around to save his brother’s life, so his brother cannot save the soldiers on the sinking transport ship. No one catches Mr. Gower’s error, so the pharmacist spends years in jail for inadvertently poisoning a child. George isn’t around to stand up to Mr. Potter, so the entire town falls under the banker’s influence, and people suffer endless hardships.

Our Own Moments of Truth
Perhaps the stakes in our lives are not as high as they are for George. But I have to believe—I do believe—that we each play a pivotal role as we pass through this world. As Clarence shows George, every person is irreplaceable, and we each have a unique role to play, a unique job to do. If we don’t do it, the job may not be done.

“The Nativity” by Lorenzo Lotto

But we do not face these challenges alone. As much as I love the fanciful worlds of Santa and the Grinch and the Sugar Plum Fairy, I believe in my heart that the reason for the season centers around the birth of Jesus. I believe in my heart that he is the Son of God. So just as he sends help to George in A Wonderful Life, God sends us help when we need it most.

As you leave 2018 and embark into the unknown world of 2019, may your New Year be filled with abundant blessings. As Tiny Tim so memorably puts it: “God bless us, every one.”

God Bless Us, Every One, Every Day!

Christmas is or ought to be the one time of the year when men and women
open their shut-up hearts and think of the people below them as if they really were
fellow passengers to the grave and not another race of creatures altogether.
—Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol 

As 2017 draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the events of the past year. With all due respect to Charles Dickens, I wonder why we cannot open our “shut-up hearts” every day. Perhaps that is too much to ask.

Yet people do open their hearts at other times—when they learn about children who have lost their homes or when they read about a handicapped person whose wheelchair has been stolen. People seem to be particularly generous when natural disasters strike.

During the past few months alone, hurricanes, volcanoes, floods, wildfires, earthquakes, and other natural disasters have affected millions of people around the world. As an animal lover, I find myself wondering about the hurricane-harvey-rescue-boats-ap-jt-170827_12x5_992welfare of the animals with which we share the earth, particularly our pets. How do they cope during natural disasters? What can we do to help them?

All Creatures, Great and Small

Because all creatures are connected, each must be cherished with love and respect
for all of us as living creatures are dependent on one another.—Pope Francis, Laudato sí

Our pets rely on us for everything from food to shelter to medical care to companionship. As helpless as we are in the face of disaster, we at least have the resources to save ourselves.

• Animals cannot make a phone call or send a text.
• Animals cannot let themselves out of flooded homes, barns, or pastures.
• Animals cannot travel miles to safety.
• Even animals rescued by their owners cannot always take refuge at emergency shelters because not all shelters accept pets.

In the United States, although we do not yet know the full consequences of Hurricane Harvey, Hurricane Irma, or the California wildfires, we do know that during Hurricane Katrina—a benchmark for all natural disasters—approximately 600,000 animals died or were abandoned.

While saving and safeguarding human lives must take precedence in rescue and relief efforts, we cannot forget about the animals.

It takes nothing away from a human to be kind to an animal. —Joaquin Phoenix

cat-face-close-view-115011Organizations such as national and local SPCAs, the Humane Society,  and other shelters do incredible work year-round. During disasters, they often help shelters in affected areas by taking in the overflow of animals.

As critical as these efforts are, it’s often the actions of individuals that make the biggest difference. In many cases, it’s children and teens that lead the way.

Over the past few months, I’ve read many stories about young people giving of themselves to help disaster-stricken animals. The following stories stood out to me because they involve two of my favorite things: Music and Cookies.

Fiddling for the Animals
Hurricane Harvey hit the Gulf Coast of Texas as a Category 4 storm in August, causing massive flooding and forcing thousands to evacuate. When 10-year-old Jackson Wreden read about the devastation in his home state, he immediately wanted to help. “I really love pets and I really love animals, and I want to help them out.”

Many people saw the same stories and had the same impulse to help. But not everyone took action.

In October, Jackson put his talent as a fiddler to work for the animals. He made homemade signs announcing his intention to donate all proceeds to Austin Pets Alive. Then he stationed himself outside the entrance to the Austin City Limits Music Festival and played his heart out for the animals.

Thanks to his selfless act and the generosity of many concertgoers, Jackson reached his goal of $1,000. I say, “Bravo, Jackson!”

Baking Cookies for the Animals
Declan McWeeny isn’t even from Texas, but when the 8-year-old boy from Bloomfield, Connecticut, saw the stories about Hurricane Harvey on television, like Jackson, he wanted to raise money to help the suffering animals.

Like Jackson, Declan also has a talent—not music, but baking. With the help of his mother, Declan spent many days after school baking and then selling his chocolate chip cookies to family, friends, and others via Facebook and a GoFundMe account.

Declan’s initial goal was to raise $1,000, which he divided equally between his two favorite charities: Austin Pets Alive! and Save the Children. Once he surpassed that goal, Declan sent the additional donations to Americares and the ASPCA. Great job, Declan!

Do not think only of your own joy, but vow to save all beings from suffering. —Dalai Lama

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At the end of The Man Who Invented Christmas, the movie depicting how Charles Dickens came to write A Christmas Carol, producers included the following note: “Charles Dickens published A Christmas Carol on Dec. 19, 1843. By Christmas Eve every copy had been sold. Overnight, charitable giving soared.”

What better time of year to start thinking beyond our own joy? We would all do well to open our “shut-up” hearts to all the people and animals that share this world with us.

As Tiny Tim says, “God bless us, every one!”